LEARN TO LISTEN TO YOUR CUSTOMER

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What they say… without saying it

Has this happened to you?
Someone walks into your store, looks around, asks a question, nods, even smiles…
But in the end? They walk away without buying.

And you’re left thinking:
“What went wrong? They seemed interested…”

👉 Here’s the truth: Sometimes your customer is speaking loud and clear — but you’re not really listening.

And I’m not just talking about words. I’m talking about gestures, silences, polite excuses, and subtle clues. If you learn to read them, you’ll stop losing sales and start responding at the right moment, in the right way.

1. Listening is more than hearing

Real listening is paying attention, reading between the lines, and understanding what the customer needs — even when they don’t say it directly.

🔸 Real example (Philly):
A customer walks into your clothing store. She looks at the prices and says:
“These designs are beautiful!” … but she doesn’t touch anything and keeps walking.
She’s not saying “It’s too expensive,” but she’s definitely thinking it.
👉 What do you do? Ask what style she’s looking for, show similar options, and mention any discounts or offers you have today.

2. Phrases that sound nice… but mean “no thanks”

Here are a few common ones:

  • “I’ll think about it” = They’re not convinced (or don’t see the value yet)
  • “I have to talk to my partner” = They’re unsure
  • “I’m comparing options” = You haven’t made an emotional connection
  • “Thanks, I’m just looking” = They walked in, but you haven’t given them a reason to stay

🔸 Ask yourself:

  • Did I really connect with this person?
  • Did I show them the benefit or just describe the product?
  • Did I ask enough good questions?

3. Learn to read body language

Most human communication isn’t verbal.

🧍‍♀️ If someone crosses their arms, avoids eye contact, or takes a step back — they’re probably closing off.

But if they lean toward you, touch the product, or ask for more details — they’re interested.

Watch. Notice. Adapt.

4. Now what? Respond with empathy

When you spot negative signals, don’t push.
Instead, ask soft questions like:

  • “Is there something that’s not quite right about the product?”
  • “Want to see a few similar options?”
  • “Is there something specific you’re looking for that I can help you find?”

Empathy opens more doors than pressure ever could.

Learning to listen well won’t just help you sell more — it will help you build real trust and lasting customer relationships.
And if you think your team or business could benefit from training in this area, we’re here to help.
Sometimes, all it takes is hearing the right idea to transform how you sell, shall we talk?

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